Viewing etiquette when buying a home
Viewings are part of the property buying process — but not everyone understands the etiquette required when inspecting someone else's home. Here's what to do, and what not to do.

No one wants to make a bad purchase when buying a property. It's a big investment, so you have to inspect a potential buy really well. A certain amount of looking around is essential — but how much is too much? Property viewings come with their own unwritten rules, and getting them right keeps the seller's side on your side and helps you inspect properly without overstepping. Below is a simple guide to what to do, and what not to do, when you're viewing a home.
What to do at a viewing
1. Ask lots of questions
The real estate broker is there to sell the property, so be sure to ask as many questions as you can think of. Don't leave the viewing with unanswered queries about your potential big investment. Common questions to ask include:
- Why are the owners selling?
- Have you received any offers to buy the property yet?
- Have there been any renovations done?
- Are developments planned nearby?
- How long has the property been for sale / on the market?
- Are there any known issues with the property or the neighbours' properties?
2. Check for anything that is broken
During a viewing, it should be okay to open kitchen cupboards, check the taps are working, and do similar inspection tasks. But it's a good idea to seek permission from the broker — or the owner if they're present — before you do.
3. Take photos (with permission)
Most of the time, all the photos you need should already be online in the property's listing. But if there's something not shown online, it should be acceptable to take a photo yourself — just check with the broker or owner beforehand.
What not to do at a viewing
1. Criticise the home
You're visiting someone's home. You may not like every single aspect about it, but it's guaranteed that the owner (or broker) doesn't want to hear your grumblings. If you want the broker or owner to reduce the asking price, do it through an educated, information-backed discussion — not through criticism on the spot.
2. Bring food or drinks
It's just common courtesy not to walk through someone's home while drinking or eating. The last thing you want is to accidentally drop something and leave a mess to clean up.
3. Walk through with shoes on
Again, this is someone's home — they live there, and they don't want muddy footprints through their living room. Take your shoes off at the front door before entering.
4. Snoop around
There's a difference between inspecting a property and going through someone's personal possessions. It goes without saying, but don't snoop through the home.
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Good viewing etiquette helps you inspect a home properly — but the buyers who move fastest are the ones who've sorted their financing before they start looking. Knowing your borrowing power up front means you only view homes you can realistically buy, and you can put in an offer with confidence the moment you find the right one. With Nook you can pre-qualify in about 3 minutes, then a dedicated consultant compares 20+ banks and runs your entire home loan application for you — for free, because the bank pays Nook, not you. You never fill in bank forms one by one or queue at branches. Nook's loan calculators are a quick way to check your financial capacity before your next viewing.
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Quick answers to the questions home-buyers ask about viewing etiquette.
What questions should I ask at a property viewing?
Ask as many questions as you can — the broker is there to sell, so it's on you to dig. Useful questions include: Why are the owners selling? Have you received any offers yet? Have any renovations been done? Are there developments planned nearby? How long has the property been on the market? And are there any known issues with the property or the neighbours' properties? Never leave a viewing with unanswered queries about what could be your biggest investment.
Is it rude to inspect cupboards and taps during a home viewing?
No — checking the property properly is the whole point of a viewing. It's reasonable to open kitchen cupboards, test the taps and inspect for anything broken. The polite move is to ask the broker, or the owner if they're present, for permission first. That way you can inspect thoroughly without overstepping in someone else's home.
Can I take photos when viewing a house in the Philippines?
Usually most of the photos you need are already in the property's online listing. If there's something not shown online, it's generally acceptable to take a photo yourself — but check with the broker or owner beforehand. Asking first is simple courtesy and keeps the relationship with the seller's side positive.
What should you not do when viewing a home?
Don't criticise the home in front of the owner or broker — if you want to negotiate the price, do it through an educated, information-backed discussion afterwards. Don't bring food or drinks inside, as a spill creates a mess in someone's home. Take your shoes off at the front door rather than tracking dirt through their living room. And don't snoop through personal possessions — there's a clear line between inspecting a property and going through someone's private belongings.
Should I get pre-qualified before I start viewing homes?
Yes. Getting pre-qualified before you view properties means you only look at homes you can realistically finance, and you can move fast when you find the right one. With Nook you can pre-qualify online in about 3 minutes, and Nook matches you to the lender from 20+ banks most likely to approve you at the sharpest rate — all free, because the bank pays Nook, not you.
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